Make the conscious choice to define yourself and live your life as an Asian man on your terms, not anyone else’s. Thank you to everyone who asked me some really great questions for this AMA. I hope I was able to illuminate, educate, and maybe even entertain with my answers.
LONG article on JT Tran (Viet-American PUA) and what motivates Asian guys in the PUA world.
Jeremy Lin could learn some moves from Asian Playboy. The Asian Playboy has built his global dating business the “ABCs Of Attraction” on producing dating seminars, geared specifically to coach and teach Asian Men “How to Date”. Once you become really good, you can give up canned routines and work on things that are natural and congruent to you. By practicing social interaction in real life, you won’t have to spend time learning PUA routines from handbooks, desperately hoping for some magic bullets.
“My older sister actually marries an American guy, a Caucasian guy.”
You’re really friendly.” That really points me towards the direction that, hey, I arrived at who I want to be, and I’m enjoying every part of my life a lot more now because of that, being able to present myself. The stereotypical thoughts that most Asian parents would have is that, “Oh, they wouldn’t understand our culture. They’ll be impolite, and do this to offend us,” and I kind of just prepped her for that, and it just got off on a pretty good leg, you know, got off on the right foot.
But I always try to make a point of introducing my culture to her, whether its food, or a little bit of language, or just a little bit of history, because you want them to understand you, and though we are American, we’re also Asian American. And then, the first thing I taught her was how to greet my parents, so, that I think she made JamaicanDating a really good impression, that first day. That just opens up the possibilities, versus what they think. And actually it seems quite strangely alike, I’m Taiwanese, it actually seems like strangely similar, you know, so that just like some sets of values and beliefs, actually they’re kind of similar if you just talked about it.
For awhile I was working for Infinity, the car dealership, because I went through this career fair. I was talking to these people, and then one of the recruiters said, “I don’t have a job opening for this or that, however, would you like to sell cars? ”, and, “You seem like someone who is really presentable, and personable. I think you would do really great in selling cars”, and that’s what got me into this whole thing.
Then we try and base or steer the conversation according to that whenever they’re socializing so they have something interesting to say and are comfortable with it. Yet another thing to consider, for those in the total anti-routine, anti-pickup artist camp, is that all Naturals use routines. Most of the Naturals I’ve hung out with, have the coolest stories, but hang out with them long enough, and you’ll start hearing the same ones over and over again. “I can really honestly say he’s one of the best teachers out there, especially if you’re an ethnic minority or Asian. I know firsthand there’s can be a lot of limiting beliefs that go along with that and he’s simply the best in the business.”
Tran spoke at Yale for Master’s Tea and was featured in The Yale Herald. In February 2012, Tran visited the Wharton School of Business at University of Pennsylvania to talk about various cultural issues and why he decided to become a “relationship guru”. JT Tran is available for interviews in the Los Angeles area and other markets. He is available for phone and Skype interviews in all U.S. and international markets, as well as byline articles and guest columnist opportunities. “If I can get just one guy to take his life back, then it will be worth the trip,” Tran said. He will be giving free dating information to Diablo 3 fanatics in hopes of inspiring them to use their time more productively.
And I found it educational even for me because some of his methods can be transferred to the non-dating world and can be used by a woman, like myself, in order to combat the bamboo ceiling. I tried to clearly express this in the article. Surprisingly balanced article written by a “a Filipino American woman and feminist”, although the title of the article “This pickup artist might not be evil” totally reveals her prejudices. All races of men want to get laid, yet somehow, Asian men wanting to is viewed with skepticism by this particular Asian-American woman.
Chinese Man Finds Success And Marries Beautiful Wife After Taking An ABCs Dating Bootcamp
William does teach our ABCs of Relationships and Marriage course where he takes what he learned through the ABCs Of Attraction and how he applied it in a long term relationship and then later on in married life. The week before that at my Los Angeles bootcamp, two of my students both romantically fulfilled their objectives. One was an Asian American who made out with attractive blondes on both nights and pulled on the first.
Truth is, every viewer will make snap judgements based on how a person looks. When you look good, you will get people to listen to you and eventually side with you. Especially if the audience leans towards a younger age.
Instead, you’ll be able to naturally bring forth your own natural, attractive personality. I charge $3000 for an entire weekend because it is one of the most emotionally and physically draining things I’ve ever done in my life. It is part fatherhood, motherhood, psychologist, therapist, drama coach, personal trainer, motivational coach, teacher, and pickup artist all rolled up into one. Each Monday we are emotionally and physically wrecked to the point of being comatose by how much of ourselves we give to our students each weekend.